Down the Drain

Down the Drain

Blogging has provided plenty of wonderful opportunities in my life. To name a few: it has introduced me to some amazing blogger friends and awesome readers, allowed me to open up and be myself through my words and storytelling, offered a fresh way for me to be creative, and it has also given me the opportunity to grow as a person, as well as a writer.

I not only adore writing Happy Wife Healthy Life, but I also love reading other blogs too. I enjoy learning about new and exciting information from those writers through their own personal stories, experiences and advice. It is always helpful to see how other people approach similar situations that I may someday find myself in, or may have already gone through at an earlier time. I believe it is imperative to learn from other people and to grow as a person by sharing our own stories with others through words, whether those are shared written or verbal.

As much as I enjoy reading about more serious topics, I also like to be entertained with lighthearted posts. I especially adore finding new recipes and am always trying to learn from others so that I can grow as a cook and baker in the kitchen. To me, nothing is more fun that trying a new ingredient I just read about for the first time. So many of my now kitchen staples were once considered strangers, but I can thank the blog world for opening my eyes to new creations and flavors.

I have made, used and enjoyed everything from quinoa to spaghetti squash, to ground flax and chia seeds, thanks to reading about these alternative ingredients on a blog at one point or another. However, the one ingredient that I had still never used before in my own kitchen was one that is probably much more well-known than even oat bran or almond milk, and that my friends is tofu.

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Actually, the only time I have ever had tofu is at Fusian where I always order the roasted tofu as the protein in my handmade sushi roll. It is my absolute favorite thing to order there, but the thought of buying and making recipes using tofu in my own kitchen has always made me incredibly nervous.  Something about that white blob  lying in a container filled with water; looking pretty unappetizing nonetheless, has never been appealing to me in the least bit.

Has anyone else ever experienced this tofu fear as well, or just me?!

Anyways, last Sunday at the grocery I decided to bite the bullet and buy my first package of tofu. Ever. I was pleasantly surprised to see it was cost efficient, especially important in case I ended up loathing my purchase and throwing away the entire package. Priorities people!

I brought home the tofu and placed it in my refrigerator, where it proceeded to stare at me for the next two days. Finally, I couldn’t take the suspense any longer and decided to open up the package and try the ‘Peaches and Cream’ recipe from the Tone it Up plan. I can’t give the exact recipe since it is a part of their membership, but it is basically just peaches, (I used light canned), tofu, and almond milk. I also added a splash of vanilla extract for a little extra flavor. I threw everything in the blender, turned it on high and blended until everything was smooth and creamy. I poured out the tofu concoction into a glass, took a deep breath and proceeded to have a sip…

So how was it you may ask?

I wish I could tell you I loved it; I wish I could say that I couldn’t wait to have tofu again; I simply wish I had a better result to share, but instead I want to be honest with you: I thought it tasted terrible.

The texture, the smell, the taste…I just couldn’t do it. I drank about one quarter of the smoothie and had to pour the rest down the drain. I wanted to like it, but unfortunately that was not the case. Sorry tofu, but I don’t think you will be making another appearance in my grocery cart anytime soon.

(FYI – As much as my husband encourages me and my cooking trials, let’s just say that he didn’t lose any sleep over knowing that my tofu experiment was not a success. I think deep down he was fearful I would love it and tofu would begin making a regular appearance in our weekly meal plans. My meat and potatoes loving husband enjoys quinoa, will eat butternut squash from time-to-time, and will even (reluctantly?) allow pumpkin to be added to his turkey chili, but tofu for dinner may have just been crossing the line)!

Talk to Me!

  • Have you ever tried tofu before? Are you a fan? If so, what is your favorite way to enjoy it? Feel free to leave any recipe links if you think it will change my tofu experience!!
  • What are some ingredients that you have tried thanks to recommendations and recipes shared by other bloggers? Which ones did you love and now regularly use, or which ones are never gracing your kitchen table again?!
Peace of Mind

Peace of Mind

This morning marked my first day back to the gym in over three weeks.  Sure, I have been staying active by doing yoga and walking Tebow multiple times a week, but I had not stepped foot into the gym since before we left for Hilton Head.  As hard as it is to fall into a new routine, it can be equally as easy to fall back into the old pattern.  I can’t believe it has been that long, but it’s funny how life goes sometimes; literally blink and the day is almost over, another month has gone by, or you’re blowing out another candle on an icing covered birthday cake.

Some people may not like Mondays very much, but as much as I love my weekends I don’t seem to mind the start to a fresh week; and today is no different.  Waking up early and going to the gym, making a healthy breakfast, and reading my devotionals has brought a calm to my morning, and peace to my heart.  I have been reminded why I enjoy going to the gym in the morning so much – it allows me to get so much more completed in the morning before I leave for work, it helps me to focus and stay present in the moment while being genuinely thankful for another day to be given, and it allows me the opportunity to see the sun beginning to rise during my drive home from the gym. 

It’s truly the little things in life, and today I am thankful for a calm morning after a busy weekend.  Will life throw me curve balls throughout the day?  Absolutely, but beginning the day on a good note is at least starting me off on the right foot.

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Talk to me!

  • What did you do this weekend?
  • How do you prefer to begin your morning?  What does your routine look like?
  • Mondays: Yay or Nay?!
Cinnamon Roll Oatmeal

Cinnamon Roll Oatmeal

Good morning and happy Friday!  This weekend, I have the following to look forward to:

 

  • Tonight is date night with my wonderful husband!  On the agenda is dinner and shopping for all the brides in my life,  (Bachelorette parties, Bridal Showers, and Weddings galore)!
  • Tomorrow I will be attending a Bachelorette party for my girlfriend, Gretchen, whose wedding is exactly one week from today!
  • Sunday will be catch-up day, rest day and Mother’s Day,  (Happy Early Mother’s Day to all you momma’s out there)!

 

I have 8 hours of work today before all the fun starts, but I wanted to share a yummy breakfast recipe with ya’ll for starting this Friday morning off on a great note:

 

Cinnamon Roll Oatmeal

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Ingredients

1/3 cup oats

1 tablespoon chia seeds (optional, but it makes the oats extra thick!)

2 cups water (if not using chia seeds, use 1 1/4 – 1 1/2 cups water)

1 egg

1 teaspoon cinnamon

2 teaspoons – 1/2 tablespoon real maple syrup (add-to-taste, I like my oats less sweet, but if you prefer it sweeter add more syrup)

1 tablespoon light cream cheese

Directions

Over medium heat, add oats, chia seeds and water to a small saucepan.  Bring to a rolling boil.

Remove from heat and quickly whisk in one whole egg.  Add in cinnamon, maple syrup and cream cheese, and continue to whisk until fully combined and heated through.  Pour oatmeal into a bowl and add a pinch more cinnamon if desired!

 

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Talk to Me!

  • What is your favorite cinnamon treat?  (Cinnamon Rolls?  Cinnamon Banana Bread?  Cinnamon Sugar Oatmeal?)
  • What did you have for breakfast this morning?
  • What are you doing this weekend?!
Goals Before Baby

Goals Before Baby

Being exactly one half of a young and newly married couple, I am well aware what one of the very first questions asked after the rings are exchanged and the vows are sealed with a sweet, loving kiss…

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When are you two planning on having a baby?

It’s not that I think this question shouldn’t be expected; I mean, who doesn’t want to see a couple grow their love by adding a baby to the family? However, I think the even more confusing question possibly asked in return by the new husband and wife is: When exactly is the right time to have a baby?

Unfortunately, there is no right or wrong answer to this ageless inquiry, and nobody can provide a perfect date, location, or place of mind for adding a child to the mix. I ran across this article from The Nest that lists 41 things that couples should do before having a baby. Before the rumors begin, Tim and I are not preparing for a baby right now, but I figured that I may as well check out the list to see what we still need to get done before that time comes!

 

According to the article, here are some of the items that Tim and I have already completed:

Buy a home.

We actually accomplished this one before we even said “I do!”  We bought our house one month after we got engaged, Tim then moved in and I moved in after the wedding.

Take at least one dream vacation.

Our honeymoon was a week-long dream trip to Jamaica!

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We would love to do some more traveling though, including Hawaii, Paris, Italy, Napa, Nantucket, etc!

Go to Disneyland.

We haven’t been to Disneyland, but we have been to Disney World together. Animal Kingdom is our favorite park!

Take a Cross Country Trip.

We haven’t drove across the country, but we did drive to Hilton Head last month. We also haven’t been to California together, but we did go all the way west to Denver after Tim’s college graduation.

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Enjoy a Splurge.

We are sometimes too good at splurging!!

Develop a hobby.

Cooking and baking, decorating and blogging for me; Golfing and the Broncos for him!

 

Here are a few things we are in the process of working on:

Establish your Career.

Trying every day!

Address any problems in your relationship.

Like any marriage, there are bound to be issues that come up over the course of time, but so far we have done a good job of working through any concerns we may have.

Discuss how you want to raise your child.

We have had many open discussions on this subject, but I am sure those conversations will continue forever!

Start and Finish any Major Home Renovation Projects.

Our house will probably never be completed (by my standards at least!), but we have done quite a few things including the kitchen, laundry room and downstairs half-bathroom!

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And, here are the items on the list that are a little bit of a long shot:

Purchase your Dream Car.

Okay, we may not have our ‘dream’ cars, but we are blessed enough to have two new reliable vehicles that have not given us any trouble so far. We’ll take it! Who knows, maybe someday Tim will get his Range Rover and I will have my Infiniti Coupe, but I am almost 100% positive that won’t be pre-baby.  Maybe when we are retired instead!

Relocate to your Dream City.

Umm…I think this one is a little easier said than done being that you have to find the right jobs available in the right place.

Take a Cruise.

I love cruises, but my husband is a little paranoid after the recent Carnival disasters! We will see!

Save a 12-month emergency fund.

We are constantly working on building up our savings, but to have 12-months’ worth of savings at our fingertips would be an extremely impressive goal to achieve!

Go to at least one major sporting event.

We have been to a ton of sporting events, including a Reds game in Cincinnati, a Rockies game in Denver, Broncos vs. Browns game in Cleveland, and an OSU vs. Wisconsin game in Columbus, but The Nest is suggesting we attend the Super Bowl or the Olympics… However, I am not too sure how we are expected to build a huge emergency fund while still splurging on an event of that extent!

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Launch your own business, switch careers, or go back to school.

This is a huge decision that may take time and cost plenty of money. It would definitely de-rail some of the other goals that were already suggested like establishing a career or saving a huge amount of money.  Plus, sometimes it takes a lot of soul searching and patience to decide what to do with the rest of your life…there is no need to rush a decision that large.

 

As you can see, unless we are planning on waiting until we are at least in our late-30s, or are putting all of our eggs into the winning the lottery basket, there are many things that won’t be checked off the list before we have a baby, but that is okay! Of course it would be nice if we had a ton of money in the bank, traveled all over the world, and achieved the ultimate successful careers before baby, but we have to accept the hand we are dealt and make the best of what we have today. I don’t think there is a perfect answer to the question of when to have a baby, but it’s instead up to each individual couple to decide what’s best for them; whether they complete the entire list before baby…or not!

 

Talk to me!

  • What are your thoughts on the article? Are there any items on the list that you agree with, or disagree with?
  • If you’re a parent, how did you decide the perfect time to have a baby? What do you wish you would have accomplished before having a baby, if anything?
  • If you’re not yet a parent, what would you like to accomplish before that day comes for you? What will qualify as the perfect time in your eyes?
WIAW: Mix-it-Up

WIAW: Mix-it-Up

Although I am able to mix-and-match my family’s weekly meal plan, I am also a creature of habit when it comes to my meals in many ways.  Especially during a busy work week. 

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One of my absolute favorite dinners – Dashing Dish Turkey Lettuce Wraps (using Collard Greens instead of Iceberg Lettuce). 

We probably eat this dinner at least 2 or 3 times a month!

For example:

Breakfast – Eggs and toast, cereal or oatmeal

Morning Snack – 1/2 an apple or grapefruit, banana, or a cup of mixed berries and melon

Lunch – Typically leftovers from dinner the night before.

Afternoon Snack – A couple tablespoons of almonds and / or a protein shake

Dinner – Varies day-to-day!

Dessert – A protein shake if I didn’t have one after work, or a single serving Dashing Dish dessert

 

As you can see, the majority of my meals are pretty standard, but dinner is typically a little more inventive and creative.  In an effort to mix-it-up a little bit, today’s WIAW showcases different meals I have been enjoying on a variety of days, not just in the usual 24 hours.  Head on over to Jenn’s blog to check-out what other people have been eating too!

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Cincinnati Chili Recipe by Saveur

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As an eater and lover of Cincinnati Chili all of my life, this recipe was absolutely spot on!  When you first take a look at the ingredient list, items like cocoa powder, cinnamon and allspice in your chili may be a little scary, but just go with it.  Trust me, everything just balances each other perfectly.  The only thing I would have done different was add more cheese to the top of my serving to make it that much more authentic.  Just a tip, this recipe was not a weeknight attempt, but I actually made it on a Sunday evening when I had plenty of time!

 

Kashi Go-Lean Crunch (Still my go-to bowl of cereal!) with Almond Milk, Ground Flax, and Slivered Almonds.  An oldie, but always a goodie!

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I have also been loving Honey Bunches of Oats, Quaker Oatmeal Squares and adding fresh sliced strawberries and walnuts to my cereal bowls.

Beef Stir Fry with Broccoli, Carrots, Onions, Garlic and Mushrooms served on a bed of Quinoa

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I didn’t really follow a recipe on this one, but the sauce was a simple mix of soy sauce, beef broth, garlic powder, black pepper, a splash of sesame oil, and I topped the whole dish with white and black sesame seeds.

Even More Homemade Pizza Recipes (See more recipes here and here)

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Talk to Me!

  • Are you a creature of habit when it comes to your daily meals?
  • Is there a certain time of day you are less likely to be creative in the kitchen?
  • What is the best thing you’ve ate lately?