This past weekend, I headed to Columbus with Tim to meet up with a few of my girlfriends and their significant others for dinner and a night out at the piano bar downtown. While at dinner, we started discussing housekeeping and organizing and who runs the cleaning schedule in the home. The more we talked, the clearer it became that in every relationship there seemed to be that opposites attract mentality. That balance between one needing a clean home and the other being more laid back about organizing seemed to make for the perfect compliment of one another and leads to an easier living situation than if there were two obsessed or if there were two who didn’t care.
As long as I can remember, I have thrived off organization and have felt most creative in clean spaces. When I used to finish playing with my toys, I would immediately pick up and put them away in an ordered manner. My American Girl doll’s clothes had to be folded neatly, my Barbie dolls were placed in its respective storage, and all of my Beanie Babies had to be accounted for and in the assigned bins. Even at the age of seven I believed there was that perfect spot for everything I owned. To me, a clean room equaled a clear mind and I continue to think in a similar manner even today. Whether I am at work, at home, or in the car I try to keep everything neat and tidy.
During my youth, I had gymnastics practices fourteen hours per week and during competition season I would have entire weekends devoted to the sport. I did all of this while also going to school full-time, keeping up my grades, spending time with friends and family. I think the crazy schedule I maintained forced me to be organized from a young age. It was the only way I could complete everything I needed to and still stay sane.
I know this type of behavior can be annoying to those I live with who are not quite as clean obsessed as me. My husband likes a clean space, but it doesn’t stress him out the way it can me and again, that balance works for us. I used to think I was pretty strange when it came to wanting everything in its place, and for awhile I thought I was the only one crazy about organizing. However, now that Pinterest has come into existence I feel a little less insane knowing there are others out there like me. In fact, there are plenty of domestic divas putting my antics to shame! Rest assured I am picking up some tips along the way and am even learning to be a little easier on myself for wanting everything in its proper place.
Right after the new year began and all of the Christmas decorations were packed away until the next holiday season, I decided to clear out and organize my hallway closets. I had a linen closet that was filled with bed sheets, blankets, and towels that had been unfolded and thrown around a little bit. My second closet was my mish-mash storage area that had everything from manuals to DVDs, vacuums to paper products, and was filled with frames and pictures just waiting to be hung throughout the house. I tackled these areas with a little help from some Pinterest, and some newly purchased baskets, Tupperware, crates, and glass jars from a variety of stores like Target, Dollar Tree, and Hobby Lobby. I absolutely loved how the baskets kept everything neat and orderly, especially when stuffed with sheets that may not lay flat and can look like more of a mess than they actually are.
I even got my some more pictures hung up in our stairway collage.
I wish I had before pictures to share as well in order to show what a difference the containers made, but you will just have to trust me that my hallway closets are much, much more organized now. My next goal is to straighten out my bedroom closet that is filled to the brim with clothes and shoes. About half of the clothes in there I wear constantly, but the other half consists of either old clothes that are too worn to wear, clothes that are stretched out or no longer fit, or sweatshirts and sweatpants that need tossed or cut into cleaning rage. I hope to find time in the next couple of weeks to try on all of my clothes and shoes and keep those that fit well and that I love and give away or sell the rest.
Questions:
· Are you passionate about organizing like I am? Or, do you not get worked up when things aren’t perfectly organized?
· What are your favorite organizing tips? Feel free to link up if you have anything specific to share from the web!
· If you are organized and live with someone who is less strict about putting everything away, how do you handle this sort of living situation? Or, vice versa, if you don’t care about organizing as much, how do you live with someone who is obsessed? From past experiences, do you find that the opposites attract mentality works well when living together?





ANNOYING? I want you to move in with me.
Ha ha ha! I would be the organizing crazy girl running around…
I love to organize and have things be neat and tidy! Unfortunately, during the school year, I feel like I don’t have a spare minute to focus on keeping things organized. Our house is still clean and neat, but it’s what goes on behind closed doors — like in cabinets and drawers — that gets really scary! I have big plans to do some serious re-organization this summer!
That is exactly how I am too, and why I absolutely felt the need to clean out those closets! Everything in plain view of my home looked neat and organized, but the closets are where the messes were being made and the clutter was going. We have one ‘junk’ room in our house at this time and I am hoping to get that room cleaned out and organized this spring too! That is a huge amount to take on and is overwhelming, so right now I just keep the door shut.. ha ha!
That closet looks awesome. Nothing beats having your space clean and neat in addition to finding and discovering things you don’t remember you have. You are motivating!!!!
Thanks..
It definitely helps to keep stress levels down when my home is nice and organized! Next up will be the junk room… you know which one that is!
I am the exact same way Jana – so organized. I too was a busy kid (horseback riding everyday, sports practices, school work) and staying organized kept me sane. My boyfriend and I live in a 700 sq/foot apartment, so organization is KEY to making the most out of a small space. I have more baskets and bins than I care to admit, but it helps to keep everything organized. I agree with the opposites attract thing – it totally works that I’m a neat freak and Bernie isn’t.
I definitely think that how you grew up and handled your own room with cleaning/organizing as a kid can directly relate to how you handle it now. It seems to me that being busy forces you to stay organized just like we both said… to keep us sane!
It would be really hard to just flip that switch off and stop caring!
My husband and I are actually pretty similar in this area… We aren’t obsessed about organization and tidy-ness, but we definitely enjoy a clean and clutter free house. That being said, even though our house may not always look perfect, it never looks terrible. There’s rarely a time that either of us get annoyed with the other one for not cleaning or picking things up. It works for us! I go in phases when it comes to organization… I’m not crazy about it, but every once in awhile I’ll go on an organizing spree!
Sometimes I think my house is just a complete disaster, but when I take a step back and look around, I tend to realize that it is never as bad as I imagine! Like you, I can be happy with it and then suddenly think I need to organize and clean from top to bottom! My obsession can come in spurts as well…! lol
Oh my goodness, please come organize my home!!! We both like neat and clean, but we have NOT found a good system in our nearly 3 years of marriage. I’d love to go spend lots of $$$ at the Container Store or another home organization store to get MATCHING containers to put stuff in! One day…
Ahh me too! I am such a sucker for the Container Store… I try not to go in there because it is so expensive! My dream house would definitely be completely organized, clutter free, and all matching too! lol
In the meantime, Target has some really great stuff for pretty cheap!